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Relax for a while after long hours studying . Understanding the history of beloved Country Malaysia.

Relaks relaks kat sini jap mesti best...

What a girl want

Assalamualaikum

Bila dah tibanya cuti sekolah ni, biasalah perkara yang bagaikan cendawan tumbuh selepas hujan adalah kahwin. Ramai yang melangsungkan perkahwinan termasuklah sahabat2 terdekat...Alhamdulillah congratulation everyone. May Allah bless your marriage and granted you kids to lighten your marriage life. A special congratulation dedicated to my friend NADIA and coursemate SAFINAH for their wedding this weekend. ! This is the next phase of life after teenage life in human life phase. Means we enter a new journey with new man together we build a family insyaAllah under the blessing of the Most Merciful Allah. 

Tips when looking for spouse, it is written in a hadith of Nabi Muhammad SAW that woman that is to be married for four reasons that is her property, status, beauty and religion and choose the one who is religious. This hadith is also referring to men. When looking for soulmate, some other criteria that we might want to look into is how far a man can accept you and your family the way it is. marriage means we get married with that person and his family too. Besides that, communication between couple is very important because communication happen all the time in a relationship. We spend time, we share thoughts, happiness, misery, sorrow all with the only one. Can he lend his ears and appreciate the feelings of a woman. 

For the newly weds, be tolerance with each other. Human being is not perfect. We are imperfect creation but can always try to be it. (100 percent efficiency for engineers ^^) Husband and wife needs to accomodate the weaknesses and appreciate the goodness in a relationship. Tolerance is caring.

Last motivational talk by Dr fadzilah kamsah said husband and wife actually have equal number of similarities and differences. When you feel angry or dislike, calm yourself by finding your similarities and dig deeper into your relationship that you might found a gold mines inside it. Prepare yourself for the next phase of life and make doa. May Allah bless you with the one best for you cause he knows better.

This update triggered because marriage is a hot topic currently at my place like newly cooked pisang goreng ! 

Success Vs Glory

Everyone wants to succeed in their life. No one is exceptional.  Birds also cannot fly without learning how to fly. To fly high up in the sky, we need to learn more to fly high. Yea life is like a bird. Where you are free to choose whichever path that can lead you to success. But ofcoz...DUN DO BAD THINGS !!

Always remember this, being defeated is TEMPORARY but what makes it permanents guys ??  yea the answer is GIVING UP. yup dats true..this is the value dat will brings us down...Well an advice for myself too. Ya no restriction to feel down in life maybe when we face problem its a norm man we're human being we have feeling..but dun feel down for too long. it will drag your life with it. So dun be it.. Be happy. Face problem with a smile. InsyaAllah. You're gonna be OK !

Okey..Tadaa~~

Just want to say... I Love You..!!

Hai everyone, have a good day !

Emm friendship ? what we can say about friendship  ?  believe it or not, friendship plays a great deal inside our life. we need friends to talk to, we need them to share thoughts, we cry for them to share sadness and glory, in fact most of the time in life, we spend more time with friends than family. Dats why, people always said choose your friends carefully because your friends shows you who you really are. But this does not mean that we have to be selective in choosing friends because who knows we might be the 'gud people' to be friends with and can influence our friends to the goodness. Isn't that great ! 

Sahabat sejati always there with us through our thick and thin. My friends always said her principle is, yea although sometimes people always do bad things to us, but that doesn't mean that we have to fight back and be like them. If we do good deeds, people wil always recognize us and InsyaAllah they will follow us to be good ! <   the aura conceptlah i would say...^^  >

Heheh just finish walking around university with BFF... InsyaAllah when we be good to people, people will be good to us...

Sekian.

What we call a life...

Sejak dari kecil lagi kita dibesarkan untuk mengenal matlamat sebenar kehidupan. Sejak kita semua kecil juga, kita mula belajar erti susah payah dalam mendaki kehidupan tanpa kita sedari. Masa kita masih baby lagi, kita cuba dan terus cuba untuk meniarap, duduk, berdiri, berjalan dan berlari. Emmm macam mane nak berdiri nie ya lutut x kuat nie. desis kita dlm hati <itupun kalau korang ingatlah hehe> tapi perasan tak sebabkan Allah kurniakan kita satu keazaman kuat dalam diri kite terus cuba dan akhirnya berjaya. Subhanallah. Lepas kita selesai peringkat baby, kita masuk pulak alam kanak kanak, emmm inilah masenye yang paling free dan bebas masalah yang aku rase sebab time dalam fikiran yang penting happy ! ^^  asal dapat kemahuan. dapat main ngan kawan2. inilah zaman yang paling menarik. 

Macam macam game main layang layang, batu seremban, galah panjang, lompat getah dan byk lagi. Semuanya bermusim bergilir gilir. Memori nie mesti menjadi satu kenangan yang indah yang xkan berulang.  Time raya menjerit jerit laungkan takbir. ^^ Bila makin besar tanggungjawab makin besar jugak. Sampailah sekarang. Bila dah masuk univesiti lagi byk cabaran yang kena hadapi, nak maintain pointer, nak cari kerja and banyak lagi. Pengalaman bila dah besar berbeza tetapi tetap menarik sebab kita boleh belajar nk kenal orang, berjumpa dgn mcm mcm ragam manusia. kadang kadang lawak jugak bila tgk kerenah org nie stalker la katakan. Yang nak katenye, walaupon cabaran makin hari makin besar, kita mesti selalu beri yang terbaik. Kadang kadang memang rase down, tapi itu semua untuk sementara waktu. jangan kita down untuk selamanya. sebab ada pepatah kata ; being defeated is only temporary but giving up is what makes it permanent'. Em insyaAllah kalau kita usaha kita mesti berjaya. Usaha + Doa + Tawakal kepada Allah , Kita mesti boleh !!!!

hehe Sekian, saje menulis bila teringat memory lame..^^ peace.